Ok let me get one thing straight ... that comment was made my MIL who needs figure out just who's HOME she is in!!!
I went to the store, came back home & open MY front door ... "Who just came in my house?" from the hag. My sweet reply ... "The owner did." Damn that shut her up ... Yep.

I went to the store, got food for my house ... after doing dishes, laundry ... pulling out WET dishes she put in my cabinet (we all know what that means right -- how freaking gross is that to find). I have had to find my shirts in my daughters clothes ... seeing my daughter is WAY smaller than me (I mean WAY smaller) I don't see why she would put my shirts with her clothes. She tried to SHRINK my clothes by washing them all in HOT water -- pissed me the hades off. Then she goes around rearranging my home the way she wants it to look.

When I have politely informed her how things work, she says "thanks" blows me off & does it her way. So, I informed my husband ... if you cannot RESPECT a persons home then you have no RESPECT for that person. (I informed him rather loudly.) Also letting him know that this was HIS home & she did not RESPECT him!! Because both my husband & I created this house, when I rearrange, he is usually right here helping me ... so if she cannot show some damn respect by leaving it how we have it then she has no respect for him. Don't you know she back the hades off ... LMAO.

Funny how you can make it work in your favor, after all they way I was raised ... If you cannot respect a persons HOME then you have NO Respect for them. In this matter I used it so against her, cause any time she messes up OUR home she is showing no respect for my husband, as well.

In the time she has been here, she has gotten shit faced & passed out. My kids found her with a beer can, on my sofa, so wasted she did feel me take it from her ... sweet huh? She rearranged my kitchen to "fit her needs" ... wrong freaking answer. Lies to my husband about my kids language --- then got nailed about it. (She had to apologize to them.) Called my thin daughter a HEFFER ... yep had to apologize for that too. Eats the kids school lunch snacks left & right (guess who the heffer truely is). Tries to cause problems between my husband & me ... pity it doesn't work.
In the end, all she does is show the world what an ungrateful little tart she is. I told my husband unless she gets help, she is not is not welcome in my home again. I don't want "Oh I am getting help from so & so." I want a statement from the dr stating she is getting help & proof that it is working ... cause after this time around even my kids don't much care for her.

She even tried to get my oldest by crying on her shoulder ... "no on loves me because I drink so much. After my husband died every one turned their backs on me" Which is bs, everyone tried to help her, instead she choose drugs & alcohol  ... turned her backs on everyone else. Now she wants pity & isn't getting it. She got so drunk she left a 5 year old on a school bus because so drunk she was passed out on a road. Lucky for me my kids are older, they got the entire drill about what can happened with her. We locked it all up ... prescription drugs & alcohol under lock 'n key.

(only mistake we made was we forgot about the beer ... won't do that again.)

As for the "Who came into my house" LMAO guess we will just have to LMAO on that one.

5 positive things:

* Got my tats -- angel & devil

* Entire House  cleaned!!!!!!
* she leaves soon ... real soon

* my mother is coming up

* back is healing