He's getting the idea, funny seeing that I had to have a fit. Well I will not say fit but I told him the books I was sending him.
Poor man. I am so use to this, but he's still trying. There would be times when I am really wondering if he's listening to me, then we talking for a bit & damn it's amazing that he truely is. But then there times when I know for a fact that when he is not listening. There are good & bad times ... LOL but then I have times like that as well. It's just part of being human.

So, we go threw this every now & then. That is one of those time where you just talk, & use the times you have to make sure that you let that person know what is going on.
How are the kids, did you get this done, how did they day go, how was work, did some fool bug you, what are the plans you have going & are they working out for you, how is day to day life .... emotional issues are a must because if you forget to tell them how you feel then what is the point?
It's pretty interesting because to be honest, you cannot give them a hug. You cannot cuddle up & just give them that look that says you've had a bad day. You aren't ping off the walls because it's been great ... or they cannot see it. They cannot sit & laugh as you watch a comedy movie or cringe as you watch a horror movie. There is so much you have to tell them.
But at the same time they have so much to tell you, although there is some stuff they cannot tell you. Which is something we all have to understand & accept. It's easy to accept once you understand why. For me that is easy ... I want him home alive.

Now that we had some talking, we have come to a bit of an agreement. He's gonna read the books & work on communitication. I am going to try to be a bit more patient ... let's see how that goes.