Now this is some thing I know, & I have been known to admit it, to a point. Yes, there are times it stress me out -- then I do major house cleaning. But life goes on ... otherwise I don't much care for much. My husband's only point (course he has one) is that I don't let them go that easy. I must admit that he is correct on that matter.

When you piss me off, it is not something that I forget easily nor do I care to admit that it is easy to forgive. I do expect to be treated the way I treat you & if you cannot do that -- well then forget it because then there's pretty much no point in dealing with me. I don't treat people like crap & I don't expect to be treated that way. I treat people with respect, & as people ... and I damn well expect to be treated that way. If you cannot find it in your life to treat others that way, then walk away from me cause you won't like what happens. I am damn good at blowing people off & telling you exactly what I think ... it will sting & you won't like it but then again you will get exactly what you have been giving.

My husband tells me I have to learn to let go of my grudges ... he's right. I have been fuming over an incident recently. The situation is done & over with, but it still gets me going. There's not a lot I can do about it, it's done ... even thinking about it still gets me going. Letting it go is what I have to learn to do, venting is great, but it doesn't always work ... neither does cleaning my entire house! Who knows ... forgiving won't happen in this matter because if effected my kids & they lied to my husband. Few lines you can cross with me, you don't mess with my children & you don't lie to my husband. Straight out you mess with them & you have are drowning in a mucky pit you will never get out of.

I guess eventually I will have to learn to let go of those grudges I have ... until then I have to learn to over focus on them. Honestly, I would prefer not to have them at all ...

5 Positive Things:

Got my sons new bikes (gotta love layaway)

Got my daughter her Guitar

Got my youngest his Bday present!!!

Hubby will be home tomorrow!

I am 100% human ... not perfect.

             Today I have I have 6 things:

It's SNOWING ... gotta love it!