I have to give my daughter credit. This adult made the wrong decision yesterday, she came to my house cursing up a storm. My daughter told her that it was inapproproprate for her to do, & she kept going. So my baby girl when in side & called the MPs on the woman!!! Whoo Hoo for my daughter. (FYI, MP's are the military versions of police.)
Then she calls me at work ... of course she doesn't call dad at work, who is closer. But we are working on that. I have to give her credit, she told the woman not to talk to her in that manner & then she took the next step.
The situation was the womans child was throwing rocks at mine & their friends. The kids decided to go after him ... his mom wasn't happy about it. She came over screaming & cursing. The MP's told her kids to stay away from my kids, and she is not to yell & scream at my kids. In the future we are only to call the MP's on her every time this happens, because she was unreasonable with everyone. Gotta love that!
In the past we have dealt with, bats & rocks, sling shots, sticks & stones ... & the list goes on. The kids were given areas to play in, my children listen to the MP's ... BUT the other kids didn't listen. The bully actually tried to come into my backyard!!! Hello, do you not listen to what you are told.
Now, on my defense, I have attempted to talk to this woman. The attitude I got from her, I walked away. She would not listen to me ... she refused to understand that her children where going after mine with a bat & large rock. I told her that if the children could play together NICELY, all was well. But if they could not then we would have an issue. Her children start the issues, I have sat & watched it ... yet she never stopped it.
I told the MP's that I attempted to talk to her before & she pulled an attitude with me. When she did, I walked off ... because I have better things to do then agrue with an adult who wants to be a child. There have been other issues, & she will not stop her children from attacting my children. Yet she wants to verbally attact mine. This has to stop, my husband will arrive short, however I will not because I will have nothing to do with the woman due to the distance I am from the location.
In the end, my daughter was right. The MP's & we know it ... if she attempts to attact my children or her children start again, we call the MP's again. This keeps going & going until eventually there is enough paperwork to ... hell if I know!
I just told my older two not to touch the child, but I told my younger two just to defend themselves. In my opinoin, that is the best thing to happen. After all, you though a stone & get punch out ... I think you got what you deserve. My children have taken this long enough, the MP's were called they basically did nothing ... more paperwork won't do nothing. No way in hell am I going to let some bully walk all over my children.
Until then, I get to sit outside & watch what is going on. So does my husband ... the fun & joy.
5 Positivie things:
My Children Stood Up to Bullies
Got my cell phone fixed
Enjoying my day
Cleaning house
Got Dr appointment made
busted