We agreed that we would keep the R&R from our kids when it came up, this way if it was changed it wouldn't upset them.
Well I will be damned if we didn't have that talk tonight ... "I would like to see them at the airport" "I think you need to tell them" ... that goes against what we decised. See, last time they changed his R&R so many times it wasn't even funny, & our kids were really upset. He really agreed to this, now all the change all of this. No reason, after all he will see them with in a short time of being pick up from the airport ...

Then I get told "we always hide R&R from them" ... that pissed me off. We made the decision to not tell them last year because they changed his R&R 4 to 5 times last year. After the 3 attempt we decided not to tell them, because we didn't want to upset them. And when he did come back, even I didn't believe he was coming in ... I had plans for the day he arrived & had to cancel them.

It's just really annoying. I know he misses everyone ... but to change his mind & not to consider how they will feel if they CHANGE it again, it pisses me off.